<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><rss xmlns:atom='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' version='2.0'><channel><atom:id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9211210776960723829</atom:id><lastBuildDate>Fri, 29 Feb 2008 03:42:31 +0000</lastBuildDate><title>You Da Man</title><description/><link>http://www.justbetweengirlfriends.com/blogs/youdaman/</link><managingEditor>Mack Digital Inc.</managingEditor><generator>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>1</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><item><guid isPermaLink='false'>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9211210776960723829.post-6207558438736035013</guid><pubDate>Mon, 20 Nov 2006 01:46:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2006-11-20T19:52:57.036-08:00</atom:updated><title>You Da Man</title><description>I’m tall and dark. Women tell me I’m handsome.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I grew up in the ghetto,  deep in the ghetto. I was smart and articulate. These traits became my passport  to a better life.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;At an early age, I was shipped out of my  poverty-stricken neighborhood to some of the finest schools on the East Coast. I  experienced how rich folks lived and I knew I wanted to be one of them. But no  matter how many degrees I earned, board meetings I attended or golf tournaments  I played in, the bottom line is I will always have one foot in the 'hood and the  other on Madison Ave.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I have a serious girlfriend, but women are  attracted to me. I am attracted to them too. I love my girlfriend enough, I  guess. But I also love being in the arms of other women --- African-American  women, Hispanic women and Asian women --- occasionally White women, but they are  not my preference.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When it comes to women, age “ain’t nothin’ but a  number;” I’m in my 30s, but I’ve been with women who have sons my age. I like  tall women, short women and I love a woman with some junk in her  trunk.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I’m addicted to women and they are addicted to me.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;On a  recent overseas business trip, I saw a stunningly beautiful, 50-something  African-American woman in a museum in France. She looked at me and smiled. I  smiled back. She was well put together: stylish jogging suit, hairdo just right  and blinged out. She was alone and so was I --- a dangerous  combination.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We never exchanged a word. She did her thing inside the  museum and I did mine. I was attracted to her beauty, but could care less if I  never saw her again.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Later that night, she was in my hotel lobby having  a drink alone. I walked up to her and offered to buy her a drink. The first time  she said no, but I was persistent. I had a feeling I could score, even though  her wedding ring was blinding.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It was obvious she wasn’t alone. Another  woman showed up. They laughed for a while and then I made my move. I sent drinks  over to them. Once they waved to thank me, I made my move.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I invited  the women to a nearby nightclub to dance. Inbetween dancing with them and  talking, I found out they were from the United States and in France for a  wedding, but their husbands were back on the West Coast. The stunningly  beautiful woman was married to a white man and her friend was married to a  brother.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;They were ready to leave, but I convinced Ole Girl to stay at  the club with me. Her friend made me give her my business card and room number,  just in case. After her friend left, we danced to more slow songs than fast. She  was open and so was I.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We went back to the hotel and drank coffee. I  walked her to her room. I said good night and walked away. She said she’d like  another drink, but we had already closed the lobby bar.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I suggested we  go out the next night, but she invited me into her room to raid the mini-bar.  She was nervous, but I put her at ease. I kept my hands to myself at all times  and that turned her on more. She took off her shoes and complained that her feet  ached. I rubbed them and then I said I had to leave to prepare for a meeting in  the morning.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;She walked me to the door. I handed her a $100 bill to  cover the cost of the mini-bar, but she wouldn’t accept it. We shook hands and  hugged. After the embrace, she kissed me and I kissed her back. One thing led to  another and we ended up on her bed. She unzipped my pants and did her thing. I  kept my hands to myself. She undressed herself and guided me in. I stopped her;  had to check-in with my girlfriend back home to reassure her that I was  miserable without her.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Never did prepare for my meeting that night.  Instead, I stayed in the arms of the stunningly beautiful woman whose name  escapes me. I knew I’d never see her again when I walked out of her room that  morning. When I returned home, I handed my girlfriend a designer purse and a few  other items I picked up in France for her and her mom. We were both happy!</description><link>http://www.justbetweengirlfriends.com/blogs/youdaman/2006/11/you-da-man.html</link><author>Mack Digital Inc.</author></item></channel></rss>